It was the first time I had spoken about sex to him. And the vivacious very horny virgin in me wanted desperately broach this topic. It was safe to say, that my boyfriend was flabbergasted. In my six years of being a heterosexually active woman, I had understood that an alarming number of men function through their careful boxing of women. And the Virgin-Whore Dichotomy aids them in this process.
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It was the first time I had spoken about sex to him. And the vivacious very horny virgin in me wanted desperately broach this topic. It was safe to say, that my boyfriend was flabbergasted. In my six years of being a heterosexually active woman, I had understood that an alarming number of men function through their careful boxing of women. And the Virgin-Whore Dichotomy aids them in this process. Love and lust are often just fetishizations of the characteristics displayed by the Virgin and the Whore.
And because they are merely fetishizations, they are very conditional. We know of these tropes. They are frequently used in literature and cinema. Usually with absolutely no representation of the fact that maybe a woman could be both and beyond? Of course this dichotomy is also an intersectional one. It cuts through race, class and caste. For example, the educated and independent city girl vs. Even this dichotomy has its nuances as every woman from every background finds herself marked as one of the two in different contexts, — but these nuances controlled only by the beneficiaries: men.
But I speak in the context of finding love, of heterosexual dating in an urban scenario. At the same time, he lusts after the sexually confident and independent woman. Now, he knows that this woman is smart, she will not be a docile wife, she will not submit, so he wonders how to control her. He understands that in order to impress her, he must appreciate her work, her success and appear supportive to her career. He also realises that this is a woman who must be treated equally in order to win her heart.
So he devises a charade he will perform until he gets in bed with her. And once that is done, poof! Yes, I am talking about the fuckboys see previous post , of course. Now any sensible adult would believe that such humiliating games are only played in high school. She is every bit as equal to him, if he wants to just sleep with her, she might agree to it if she finds him attractive too.
What is the reason for such a charade when honesty is all that is required here? The answer lies in the reasons why patriarchy created the Virgin-Whore Dichotomy. But that is not true. No matter how intelligent, talented and beautiful you are, there is a man actually several of them waiting to control you, devour you and spit you out.
He will look at you as a conquest and not a human being worthy of equal respect. The unfortunate truth is, it is difficult to identify toxic men right away. Thus we all have loved, desired and protected men who are not good for us, who do not add value to our lives and have been cruel to us. The Virgin-Whore Dichotomy is something that cannot be destroyed by women, because it inside the minds of men.
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Use a browser to access the site instead of Tapatalk. Cookies Tapatalk. Apr 24, 1. There was a thread recently about a man who was 26 and a virgin. But is this really true? Do men really value females who are still virgins at 27, 30, 35? Do men like women with a little experience but not so much? I have mixed feelings about this. Would you get into a relationship with a 30 year old female virgin?
Thanks x 1. Apr 24, 2. It's nto a bad thing. Just hope she can accept me. Apr 24, 3. I don't see the point considering anyone can lie and say they are still a virgin without proof. Thanks x 3. Apr 24, 4. What would you care for?? If you're a virgin at that age, you're obviously very individual Have confidence, and GO for it. Thanks x Apr 24, 5.
Apr 24, 6. I really don't know the answer to this, but if they feel weird about then maybe they aren't the right one? God will send the right man! Thanks x 5. Apr 24, 7. Not again Apr 24, 8. Apr 24, 9. I can guarantee when he's got those draws off, he's not worrying about her age Men like to conquer things.
Apr 24, I know two females that are over 25 that are virgins and they hate it I was like good luck with that I think it depends.
Some men don't care if you know what to do during sex or not. They are happy with you keep your legs open while they pump away. I have a friend who is 25 and a virgin, wants to save herself for marriage. She's gorgeous! I think it's amazing. I think you don't have to have sex to be sexy but sometimes virgins don't explore sexuality at all masturbation, erotica. This thread brings to mind Shrek's wife. Thanks x 4. It depends I know men who would look at her like something weird But in all honesty Thanks x 2.
As a woman, I think it is an honorable thing for any woman or man to be a virgin and not feel the pressures of society or their own hormones to have sex. We should raise our sons to look for potential wives and raise our daughters to wait for potential husbands. Then people would not be ashamed for doing what we are supposed to do. Thanks x 7. I don't treat virgins any different then non virgin women,even tho they Always let it be known they're virgins just to get "VIP " treatment :.
I remember reading the Jet magazine years back at the supermarket, there was a 40 year old virgin who recently got married. If sex is not a deciding factor but rather a result of great commitment, than virginity doesn't matter.
Apr 25, OP why does it matter what men think? I'll take one beautiful and intelligent Virgin over here please! Thanks in Advance! If not, now you see the cracks in that fake mofo. If I want to be with you, it doesn't matter. Apr 26, I don't know, i understand the whole V. Setting your boundaries up front so men know what to expect is a good way to pace the relationship so a guy knows what he's getting himself into you when he's trying to court you.
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